In the midst of grey skies and cold winds, love can bloom, showing up in the most mundane ways – while we get ready for the day, write an essay in the library, or dance the night away at Bridge. Whether you are celebrating Valentine’s Day the traditional way or celebrating Pal/Galentine’s Day (the new and arguably better way), make sure the environment is also shown some love this February 14th.
This can start with the gifts you exchange. Instead of ordering something from Amazon, contributing to shipping pollution and our highly consumerist society, try thrifting your present. Not only is this better for the environment, but also adds a more personal touch as you have fought tooth and nail to find something the other person will genuinely value. Thrifting is becoming increasingly popular and so the future of Valentine’s gift giving is looking bright. Try looking for presents in your local charity shop such as the Oxford Oxfam Superstore, on eBay, Vinted, Depop, Facebook Marketplace, and many other online second hand stores and community groups.
Rather than buying a Valentine’s Day card, why not make one? You could send a digital or plantable one. Alternatively, you could even write a sweet note on a sweet treat so that nothing goes to waste. Making your gift is a great way to show your love to someone and the added sentimental value of a handmade gift will encourage them to keep it forever.
Flowers are another staple for February 14th and can be a great way to brighten up a room. Instead of getting cut flowers that will eventually wither and die, it could be a nice idea to buy a houseplant that will be a symbol of your love long after Valentine’s Day. Houseplants are helpful in reducing your stress levels (something Oxford students have in abundance) and improving air quality among other benefits. Some easy to care for plants are fern’s, snake plants, succulents and my ultimate favourite, the spider plant. I remember buying my spider plant for only £1 at the Covered Market last year when it was browning and wilting. With a little bit of love and care, I managed to revive it and it now sits happily thriving in my uni bedroom.
Food is also a big part of Valentine’s Day so now could be the time to try out a new plant based recipe. Having recently gone vegetarian, I now know the plethora of tasty and easy plant based meals that provide just as much nutrients as a meat based dish, with added environmental benefits. Try a delicious vegan chili, a hearty dal or a flavoursome tofu stir fry.
You could even go on an environmental excursion. A beach clean or litter picking might not seem like the most romantic activity. However, being immersed in nature and leaning into empathy and care could be a great way to spend the day of love. There are many great places in Oxford to go for an intimate walk to reconnect with nature, such as Port Meadow, Christ Church Meadow, the Oxford Canal and many more.
So this year, I plan to celebrate in the small ways. With my friends at the pub, on a walk through the Botanical Gardens, and with care and intention.